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Thursday, August 27, 2015

MEMORIAL BOOK EXCHANGES IN YARDS

JOURNEY JOURNAL... New Orleans, LA

TALE ENDINGS:  NEIGHBORHOOD PAGE TURNERS

Along an ordinary street in front of a typical house in an accustomed neighborhood of 
New Orleans there stands an unusual focal point.  Behind it a suspended porch swing summons a mental image of calm repose generally associated with reading a book.


The “little library" phenomenon began as a memorial.  In 2009 a craftsman from Hudson, Wisconsin whose mother had died was inspired to erect a wooden, box-like structure atop a post on his lawn to serve as containment for a lending library of books.  The eye-catching novelty captured the attention of people passing by who encountered a welcoming invitation to take a book and eventually return a different one to replace it.  

It was intended as a commemorative tribute – a reflection of a mother’s passion for reading books and her role as a school teacher.  Esther's son, Todd Bol, relevantly designed the small receptacle in the configuration of a one-room schoolhouse.  

Photo Source:  Little Free Library Website, History Page

A collaborator, Rick Brooks, publicized the front yard attraction, causing the concept to be adopted by many others in widespread locations.

In fact, this means for a neighborhood book exchange heralded a trend that ensued throughout the world… so much so that a Wisconsin organization was established to oversee an ever-burgeoning network of them.  Dubbed a “Little Free Library,” this type of formation akin to a bird feeder now occupies many thousands of properties in all fifty states and in a few dozen countries.  

Photo Source:  Instagram via upworthy.com article

The movement represented by the “Little Free Library: Take A Book, Return A Book” 
non-profit entity has been described by the Wall Street Journal as “a global sensation.”  Anyone interested in providing a pop-up or micro-library of this sort can tap the organization for guidance.  People can choose to build a structure themselves or purchase one through this source via their website.  For a fee, libraries can be registered and then become part of a list of locations identified on a map where such book trading posts are located; the list is maintained via a website.  Registered owners are assigned a number and sent a printed sign that signifies participation in the “Little Free Library” program.  Resources are accessible to help sustain operations of someone’s community book exchange and opportunities to support the cause are available as well.     

This initiative motivated by a mission to promote literacy and the love of reading has also kindled peripheral perks.  Obviously, it stimulates individuals’ ideas and engenders collaboration among family members working as a team to complete a project.  Creativity can be unleashed because there is no prescribed pattern or standardization.  Designs run the gamut, from basic boxes – sometime replicating the architecture or colors of the houses by which they stand – to boldly unconventional motifs.   

(New Orleans)

Photo Source:  Instagram via upworthy.com article

Photo Source:  Instagram via upworthy.com article

Photo Source:  Instagram via upworthy.com article

Not surprisingly, these abbreviated houses brimming with books draw people together in a spirit of community, serving as an ice breaker and easily prompting spontaneous conversation.  Folks who have participated in the book exchanges consistently note that people have come out of the woodwork… that during a short period of time they have met and interacted with more neighbors as a result of this phenomenon than they had during many years of residing in the neighborhood.  One man commented that his little library “turned strangers into friends and a sometimes-impersonal neighborhood into a community.” 

Some individuals have followed the example set by the originator of this concept… to establish a little library as a tangible memorial commemorating the life of a loved one.  In New Orleans, where such structures dot at least a few dozen yards, besides the ubiquitous label identifying their connection with the supporting organization, there may be an additional notation that a particular library is dedicated to the memory of someone special.  In the Uptown district, one of them broadcasts a mother’s affinity for books. 



Imagine the relevance of such a gesture to celebrate decedents whose vocations or interests had connected them with books.  Or think of the possibilities for conjuring up a distinctive design in sync with a person's lifetime role or characteristic.  But even without such attachments or representations, simply in the name of someone who lived well, this might be a unique opportunity to energize enrichment among the living. 






Thursday, August 20, 2015

RAMSEY CREEK NATURAL BURIAL PRESERVE

Journey Journal... Westminster, South Carolina

THE LIFE of DEATH


Either the name of the site, Ramsey Creek, or the name of the company, Memorial Ecosystems, is apt to be recognized as an icon by providers in the death care industry.  The enterprise is widely lauded as the original prototype for conservation burial grounds in the United States and its footprint has made its way also to other parts of the world.  Established in 1998, it epitomizes the concept of utilizing untainted landscapes of acreage for bodily disposition in order to sustain substantial territory as a haven of ongoing, natural life.  Land protection and restoration dictate operations. It was the first of such projects to be certified by the Green Burial Council – the first so-called “green cemetery.”  The fledging expanse of thirty-eight acres has been augmented over time, now amounting to seventy-six protected acres and exemplifying the conservational thrust of such undertakings.  Through collaboration and an agreement with a non-profit land trust program, Upstate Forever, the site will remain forever wild. 


Designation of such burial grounds as protected land – based on long-term covenants, deed restrictions, and state laws banning development of cemetery properties – assures that there will be no future intrusion by bulldozers razing trees and leveling the grounds for housing or commercial establishments.  Status as a burial site permits this manner of exclusion, yet burials are secondary to the overall objective of earthly preservation.  Compared to high-density interments at accustomed cemeteries, where an underground occupant has neighbors encroaching upon one’s confining patch of a plot, bodies embedded in natural preserves are more apt to dot the turf sporadically, with plenty of “room to breathe.”

Proceeds from the sale of plots breathe life into funds for restoration and acquisition of land.  Endowment monies are utilized for maintenance measures such as attending to trails and other public spaces, maintaining equipment, thwarting growth of invasive species, and acquiring tools, like devices for identification of grave sites via mapping software (GPS and GIS). 

At Ramsey Creek Preserve, people are offered opportunities to make memorial donations for building renovations, stained glass windows in the chapel, benches, and plantings of trees, shrubs, and wildflowers.  Burial of cremated remains is an option, based on the reality of an escalating cremation rate and the prudence of using funds from such plot purchases to advance the cause of land preservation.  Pet burials also are acceptable.  

The cemetery is located between the southern Appalachian Mountains and the Piedmont sector in the western realm of South Carolina.  Nestled among countrysides evocative of summer camp settings, the area bespeaks a stark contrast to the city of Atlanta that’s little more than a hundred miles to the south of it.  State parks within range embellish the vicinity.

Upon escaping the tumult of the region’s interstate highway, the fifteen-mile drive into Westminster offers visual refreshment vitalized by sweeping panoramas of grass and groves of trees untarnished by industrialism.  A ride through the main street reinforces an impression of distinctive singularity, where businesses are solo operations unchallenged by competitive forces.  There is one funeral home in town and one doctor, Billy Campbell, who with his wife, Kimberley, happens to have been the prime mover and co-founder of the burial grounds.  He had grown up in the Westminster environs and returned to serve as a physician after completing his training at the Medical University of South Carolina.  

Undergraduate studies as an ecology student at Emory University laid the foundation for this trailblazer’s eventual initiative.  Academic absorption in medical school concomitantly accompanied by reading of literature about death put flesh on the idea that was already taking root in cognitive chambers.  As a youngster, sleepovers with the local funeral home owner’s son in the upstairs family quarters could possibly have bolstered a proclivity for this mission as well; maybe sleeping on satin pillows ordinarily reserved for casket interiors, but extracted from downstairs inventory, had contributed to his comfort with matters of death.  

Interest in reinvigorating the age-old concept of natural burial purportedly was triggered by an awareness of an eighth-grade teacher’s wish to be buried in a burlap bag with a tree planted over it.  Later, the impetus for implementation of such an endeavor was prompted especially by a medical anthropology article about spirit forests in New Guinea, embedding the seed of inspiration for a means of land preservation in Billy’s mind.  In partnership with one another, Billy and his wife, Kimberley, who had hailed from the United Kingdom, were able to cultivate the idea and bring it to fruition. 

Given their wealth of experience, these pioneers have been tapped as expert consultants by others seeking to launch such projects elsewhere.  Besides attending to their own venture in Westminster, they travel and collaborate to confer knowledge and advice.  Their principles of operation and guidance have contributed a signature stamp to other sites that have been developed. 

Considering the extent of this establishment’s prominence, it may be somewhat surprising that access to the premises is rather inconspicuous.  Visitors in the know can ascertain they have arrived at the spot upon seeing a couple of dangling orange ribbons signifying that it is a "no pesticide spray zone." There is nothing in the way of fanfare at the threshold of the bucolic property. The absence of a sign alerting drivers to the road leading to its location and the pedestrian entrance belie its archetypal status so familiar to anyone who has explored funerary territory. 





But upon contemplation of this contradiction, one recognizes the parallels between appearance and principles.  Mainstream cemeteries commonly engorged with closely situated headstones or fields of plastic blossoms hint at manufactured chaos below their grounds, suggesting conspicuous consumption in a material world.  Here, the absence of prominent signage or funerary furnishings reflects an attitude of simplicity in unadulterated surroundings.    

Administrative functions take place in town at an office on Main Street.  A house by the entrance to the preserve that's currently occupied by a relative is pegged to serve someday as a steward's quarters and a site for lodging of visiting naturalists.  


Across from a portable toilet stationed by corner hedges, a rustic barn with an embedded porch is available so people can gather to converse, perhaps before or after a graveside service… or for other unrelated purposes.  Several wedding receptions have taken place here.  



A room inside the building houses a small display of urns crafted by a local woodworker in addition to a single basket coffin.



Though most of the land is forested, there are open meadows with tall grasses covering sites where individuals’ bodies have been buried.  Growth is unimpeded by mechanical intervention.  Periodically, controlled burns are employed as the preferred technique for restricting intrusion by foreign species of vegetation and stimulating germination of native varieties upon release of nutrients into the ground.  



Often when Ramsey Creek is envisioned, it is the all-faith chapel that comes to mind because of its frequent appearance on websites.  Sight of the representative building at the end of a dirt road prompts a sense of familiarity.  



An original plan to construct a chapel was dismissed upon learning of an abandoned country church within range of the grounds.  Subsequently, it was relocated to a clearing adjacent to the wooded terrain on the property.  



The repurposed building has been beautifully restored, with its gleaming wood interior reflecting the essence of nature, lending warmth and comfort for bereaved guests who occupy it for services.  


Decorative windows that have been contributed as memorial gifts Infuse the arena with colors and designs. 



Dirt trails define pathways for walkers, casket-bearing wagons, and the three golf carts that comprise essential equipment.  


Along the way, the integrity of the land is dotted occasionally with evidence of burials at particular sites… a mound of dirt punctuated by foliage, possibly suggestive of a recently occupied grave…


… a stone marker that’s native to the area, bearing engraved names and dates…


… or sometimes a primitive, handmade stone or wooden bench.  These rough-hewn seats are popular additions, but availability is limited.  



As a prominent feature of this preserve that bears its name, the narrow, curving Ramsey Creek awash with fish winds along the eastern border of it in resounding accentuation.  



The flow of water courses over five rock shoals in its path, creating a sensorial aura of tranquility.  



It’s no surprise that folks tend to prefer burial sites closest to the water, which cost more than ones in other locations.  

But signature manifestations of a natural environment prevail in other locations as well.  This land with its underground repository for the dead is sumptuously blanketed with life.  Under a cathedral of tall trees, it is a sanctuary for pastoral communion by anyone who meanders through it.  


Innumerable species of plants, trees, shrubs, grasses, ferns, vines, herbs, and sedges have been observed and noted on Internet-accessible lists delineating their presence.  Listings swell with new additions after purposeful explorations by visiting naturalists.  Native prairies and savannas, the most endangered southern grasslands, are growing here.  Certain rare species of vegetation, including federally designated endangered ones, have been propagated over grave sites.  

Animals such as deer, wild turkey, dogs, coyotes, and an occasional black bear share tenancy.  Here, where the dead nourish and sustain the living, this place is undoubtedly an environmentalist's paradise… perhaps a version of heaven.  However, one need not be dead to occupy its spaces.  Hiking, bird watching, and special events – even weddings – are encouraged.   

Based on the primordial principle of dust to dust, the human dead here nourish other life forms.  Bodies robed in shrouds or reposing in non-toxic, biodegradable caskets degrade naturally, free of chemical infiltrations or any type of manufactured containment that won’t break down readily.  As decomposition progresses, each burial contributes to the efflorescent restoration of a particular spot, with nutrient deposits effecting the cycle of life, facilitating ongoing rebirth in continuously changing forms.  

Interments in this setting are truly personalized rather than standardized.  A bulldozer is nowhere on the premises.  The groundbreaking founder often breaks the ground himself, removes the dirt, and prepares the sites.  Families have not been keen on digging the grave themselves, opting instead to fill it in with shovels of dirt once a body or casket has been lowered into it.  Kimberley provides flowers for the grave site. 

This cemetery that is teeming with life most likely evokes treasured memories in the minds of those who have experienced burial proceedings within it.  Meaningful measures executed by family members and friends are accented by gestures thoughtfully delivered by Billy and Kimberley.  

Although individuals from any part of the country may be buried here, sometimes for this cemetery’s proprietors there is a penetrating element of poignancy when local townspeople are the folks interred.  In a small community generating close connections, the sorrow of deaths may be felt from an especially intimate perspective.  Since Dr. Campbell is the only local physician, in some instances he has been the person who has diagnosed a terminal illness, informed the victim and the family, possibly followed the person in hospice mode, and subsequently managed the burial.  In any case, regardless of a decedent’s point of origin, these dynamic providers apparently are moored to a steady diet of committed attentiveness and personal touches.  

Guests at the forty to sixty funeral affairs per year often assume roles as participants in many different ways, enabling them to address their grief through active involvement.  Each event is apt to be managed according to individualized measures reflecting characteristics or wishes of the person who died or according to expressive variations of therapeutic value for close companions.  Lives can be enriched when undertakings prompted by deaths are relevant and inspiring.   

A quoted notation on the Memorial Ecosystems website encapsulates the essence of someone’s experience:

“… the first time we came out here, we knew it was right for Chris.  It’s beautiful and peaceful.  It’s full of life, not death."  "When he died, they buried Chris in a coffin his father had made, wrapped in quilts sewn by his great-grandmothers.  His dog Briar was at the graveside, along with 70 friends and family members.”

A conclusive presumption is that burials in this milieu are special.  Amid the sounds of a rushing stream, rustling trees, and flitting birds, the proverbial “resting in peace” feels attainable.  But it is especially possible for those who are mourning their losses… those who are there briefly for committal activities or those who return periodically to visit grave sites while absorbing the atmosphere… or for anyone who seeks to be soothed by nature’s balm.

The notoriety that has come from the efforts of Billy and Kimberley Campbell has been a boon for the birds and bees and flowers and trees, both near and far.  These environmentalists realized the value of reviving an outmoded practice in conjunction with a strategy to capitalize on it as a conservation measure.  In recognizing and actualizing opportunities of death, they nurture life.  Because of them, an idea has been hatched and a variation in contemporary death management has taken root in ever-expanding locations around the country and the world.  In concert with Mother Nature, they have developed a lasting legacy... treasures of ecological significance that will be appreciated through the ages. 




Tuesday, August 18, 2015

VAULT INSTALLATION

JOURNEY JOURNAL... Hendersonville, Tennessee

WRAPPING IT UP:  The Role of a “Wrapper”

Ambling through the Hendersonville Memorial Gardens, located on Johnny Cash Parkway, led to more than the sighting of the Johnny Cash grave site.  



Quite serendipitously, a congenial vault setter from an eminent vault company appeared on the scene and voluntarily gushed relevant details about celebrity burials there. 
Beyond that topic, though, this worker readily provided a wellspring of details about the role of a vault setter – a job he absolutely loves – and conveyed stories about some of his experiences.

He had been around, as the saying goes, driving from one regional cemetery to another, from one day to the next, covering many miles of territory each week.  A training program of several months had preceded his full-time absorption in the work several years ago.  On this day he had already prepared a site for an imminent burial.  


The tasks that an individual performs as a graveside operator entail contacts with funeral directors and their staffs, cemetery personnel, and the general public.  So a personable countenance such as this man exhibited is an asset.  The job of setting up a site is physically demanding, requiring a capacity to lift seventy-five or more pounds in order to transport equipment from a truck to the grave and install the vault.

It isn’t just a matter of positioning the vault so it is ready to receive the casket that will be placed inside it.  


The job description for someone executing this maneuver includes preparation of the overall site, whereby he lays the artificial grass rug, erects a sheltering tent above it, and sets up rows of chairs where guests can repose during the committal service.  He may also pitch in to help funeral directors carry flowers or perform other supplemental duties.  


Naturally, this person is responsible for lowering the casket within its outer burial receptacle into the ground, which is apt to be done once people have left the premises or at least upon conclusion of the service.  


But rather than waiting in the wings for a service to end, detached and disengaged, he remains available throughout the event as an adjunct helper to assure proceedings progress smoothly.  In this capacity, then, he attends to details and functions as part of a team of providers.

Direct involvement, however, can sometimes pose risks.  An altercation among siblings at a service a couple of years ago attests to that reality.  Emotions are in high gear at funerary events, possibly causing behaviors to be especially erratic.  In this case, sibling sisters were embroiled in battle, with one dragging the other by the hair.  When the vault installer attempted to intervene and separate the women, the victim’s husband swooped in from behind, admonished him for touching his wife, and kicked him in the leg – causing the bone to break.

Besides behavioral flares, the influences of gang infiltrations as well as the societal drug scourge have incited threats to personal safety at an ever-increasing rate.  Nowadays, separate security training programs are conducted for employees coupled with recognition of a potential need to carry a gun as part of the job.

On this particular day of sadness, due to the death of a twenty-two-year-old woman whose body would occupy the innermost sanctum within the vault lying in wait, the routine would be automatic for the affable installer.  Prompted by protocol, but also by the heat-induced saturation of his clothing bedecked in dirt, he would change into funeral-appropriate attire before guests arrived.  But unbeknownst to them, underneath the outer coverings, he would be wearing a holster and bearing a weapon… just in case of need.

Before his audience of attentive learners left the scene, he wanted to make sure the grave of another country singer, personally beloved by him, would be visited and admired.  As he spoke of the deceased musician, he cried.  It was obvious from the initial contact to the departing “goodbyes” about half an hour later that this enthusiastic vault employee not only wore his heart on his sleeve, but also invested energy wholeheartedly in his work.  In the future, because of dialogue with this dedicated individual, open graves with vaults in readiness for committal services will serve as a reminder of all that had already gone into them.